Communication In Marriage
In communication, there are three components that must
be balanced, namely: 7% content, 38% tone of voice, 55% non-verbal. So in this
component you will know that the level of communication is very important and
needs to be done at all times with the family. These three state many different
messages using the same words, statements or questions. Nonverbal communication
includes facial expressions, gestures, and actions. An example of nonverbal
communication to avoid is holding a book to someone's face while talking. These
elements are important in conveying messages to one another. And this requires
awareness about the tone of voice, because going through this can also create
problems or misunderstandings.
The
importance of communication in marriage is that good communication in marriage
can reduce stress and also reduce tension with your partner and can tell your
partner any problems. For example, work, friendship, or environmental problems.
The
level of communication in marriage when the couple knows each other, gets to
know each other. The knowledge of a partner is very important because the two
of them have been joined by God as one. Even in communication, there are levels
that must be known, namely:
1. Communication
emotionally and personally
2. Feelings
or emotions
3. Income
and consideration
4. Report
the facts about other people
5. Cliché
/ small talk
Communication
is the process of sharing oneself both verbally and nonverbally, in such a good
way so that other people can accept and understand what is being shared with
them.
One
Teolong stated how wonderful, how great and free this experience is, when
people learn to help one another. The immense human need must be truly heard.
Because the Bible has also stated that these thoughts about hearing are deep
(Proverbs 18:17; 21:11; 18:13). Hearing is complete acceptance without judging
what was said or how it was said. Acceptance is understanding what other people
say is something that is felt.
Communication In Marriage
In
a marriage there is no more important skill to develop than the art of clear
communication. Without communication, love cannot be fully expressed. Without
deep communication, the introduction of a partner will not develop. Without
communication problems cannot be resolved. In every marriage, communication is
something that must be continually learned. If a mountain has been successfully
climbed and conquered, there will be new challenges. It is like a trial that
must be rejected and shunned. The more starting the description of
communication during fiancity in the right way, the more things need to be
added in order to build a thoughtful relationship filled with sweet and open
love.
In
this case there are 6 helpful communication principles, namely:
Talk;
talk more, keep talking: The point is to suppose that
your partner doesn't know anything about thoughts and feelings. Say good
things, bad things or just ordinary things.
Active
Listening: Allowing the conversation to be filled with
questions. And if it is not understood what the partner said, try to express
what the partner said in their own words.
Express
conflicting ideas in a loving way, and listen to conflicting ideas openly
Agree
no personal secrets: This does not mean saying everything as
soon as possible, without consideration or indifference to the circumstances.
Nor does it mean constantly alluding to past mistakes, or breaking the trust
between us by a third split. Agree not to withhold any information from the
couple.
1. Don't
Answer Feelings with Reality / Logic
2. Look
for the source of the cause if even simple communication has reached a dead
end.
So,
communication is very important in any relationship, because without
communication someone will not understand and know what we are facing and
experiencing.
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